Gimme, gimme, gimme!
I have the questionable habit of reading Craigslist postings in several categories. One of these categories is "Items Wanted". And while Craigslist is great at pointing out the stupidity of some people, Items Wanted is a special class all its own. (All examples are paraphrased from mashed-up listings, but are a good example of what gets posted.)
"Daughter was robbed, we need living essentials donated, like a TV, stereo, and DVD player."
Because how can you enjoy having shelter, food and clothing unless you have entertaining electronics?
"Scholarships needed. I'm a college student with great grades, and I'm working a job, but I just can't afford to pay for college. Please send me money."
They're called "student loans," girl. We all got them, you can get one too. Why would I "invest" my money in someone who is too lazy to pay their own way through college?
"I need a car. If you happen to have a car laying around that you don't want, I will come haul it off for you at no charge. Must have clear title, must run, must not need extensive work."
Come on... a salvage yard will give me at least fifty bucks for any car that can roll into the yard under its own power.
"I need a couch. Must be free or extremely cheap. Must also be in great condition, not need any repairs, and come from a smoke and pet-free home."
Because in today's economy, apparently beggars can be choosers.
Now, I suppose you never know until you ask. But I think people ought to have some sense of propriety and know how and what they can ask for. Lost everything in a fire, need food, shelter, clothing... real essentials for living? By all means, have grandma post to Craigslist for you... people will be glad to give real essentials, because we recognize people in true need.
But it's this sense of entitlement that drives me up a wall. People expect to be given something of real value just because they had the audacity to ask for it. To ask for something "for free, or real cheap" and put forth requirements that it be something worth paying good money for is just rude. I'm all for people being generous. But to solicit generosity on your own behalf is uncouth.
You need a free couch? Go ahead, ask for one... but don't ask for a free couch on the condition that it be worth $200.